How to put yourself out there after college? Some of my friends moved and so my circle got smaller. How to meet new friends and find a boyfriend without getting on a dating app.
how to tell your friends outright “I am lonely and need to see friends in person and not at one of their jobs” when everyone’s too busy to meet up and you know the reasons they’re busy which are completely valid and you feel selfish for asking for even a minute
Not sure if it’s up your alley but you could talk about how to decide to be child free or not that would be amazing. Shits been driving me insane and Google is meh.
What ways do you recommend getting used to being comfortable with yourself? Any cute mini self adventures? Or mantras to get you through the day? Scary place out there
I have spent 4 years (and pretty much my whole life) on an English degree, working towards the goal of becoming an editor but recently, I am not sure if it's still what I want to do, whether it's the thing that will fulfil me and sustain me for the rest of my life. I'm 23 and do not have the luxury of going back to scratch and getting a degree in smt else, and I am expected to contribute money (of which i have none rn) to my family. HELP!
How do I heal from a friendship heartbreak that also ended up destroying a whole community I was a part of? I made a friend through us both liking the same band but they ended up being a shit friend and I can’t listen to the band anymore so I’ve ended up losing being a part of their fandom. My life feels empty
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LUUUUUUUUCE, i think i might be in love with a boy, but he has no idea i exist. my friend told me about him months ago as a potential fantasy, but i think i've grown attached and idk what to do with my feelings. i have no social media so i can't even make a move if i wanted to. crazy enough, we've been orbiting each other for the last few months and i even saw him IRL at a coffee shop, but i lost all my cognitive and motor functioning to talk to him. welp ???? is the only way out through... or can i do something about this?
it's awful because i truly can see him again at any random moment, so every time i go outside i spend a stupid amount of time making sure i look the cutest. olivia rodrigo was so right when she said love is embarrassing. i need my suffering to END.
How can you make your ideas a legacy help the next generation able to do the same after you no longer feel you want to do what your do now I imagine you training up little Luce's to take over from you.
Can your tell us what it will take to get the pods back? I miss them so bad but I want it to be something that is positive for you to do that makes you happy to do. I never want them back if it makes your life worse only if it makes it better.
This might be a long one... My boyfriend and I are both from Canada but currently living in Europe where we moved to study. Now we are done and don't really have much tying us to stay here. My partner's dream is to move to the US for job reasons. While I have my hesitancies (politics, raising kids there eventually, health care, my being able to find a job, etc.) I understand why he wants to go there and think it makes sense! He has been interviewing for a job there and I think he will get it, but we likely will find out for sure on Monday (for context today is Friday). Thing is we need to move out of our sublet in a week from today! So that gives us very few days to book tickets, pack up, and say final good byes to everyone. To complicate things, I recently started an internship here (I think it, but would not stay just for this). I have not told them that I most likely am moving the country in a week. I also would be working next week, giving me even less time to do logistical tasks. Not sure really what I am asking of if this really all makes sense, but would love some advice!
How to put yourself out there after college? Some of my friends moved and so my circle got smaller. How to meet new friends and find a boyfriend without getting on a dating app.
how to tell your friends outright “I am lonely and need to see friends in person and not at one of their jobs” when everyone’s too busy to meet up and you know the reasons they’re busy which are completely valid and you feel selfish for asking for even a minute
OMG this is such a good question/ there is SOOO much in this (also don't feel selfish for seeking the validation you deserve angel) xxx
preach!
Not sure if it’s up your alley but you could talk about how to decide to be child free or not that would be amazing. Shits been driving me insane and Google is meh.
OMG this is actually SUCH a good question, and one that I ponder on the reg (as a 26 year old who at this stage does NOT want kids!!)
lol I’m 25 and have just really started thinking about it and it’s driving me insane
Why aren’t there any college-like experiences between graduating and entering a retirement home?
omg this is low key a great q
I'm a grown-ass adult with a job and scared of traveling outside my city alone. How should I start?
Why are we strongly supporting and supplying weapons to Israel and Saudi Arabia, despite their human rights abuses? This keeps me up at night!
OMG AGREEEEEE BUT IMAGINE ME TRYING TO ANSWER THIS IN 60 SECONDS
What ways do you recommend getting used to being comfortable with yourself? Any cute mini self adventures? Or mantras to get you through the day? Scary place out there
ok daysi I am OBSESSED with this question
I have spent 4 years (and pretty much my whole life) on an English degree, working towards the goal of becoming an editor but recently, I am not sure if it's still what I want to do, whether it's the thing that will fulfil me and sustain me for the rest of my life. I'm 23 and do not have the luxury of going back to scratch and getting a degree in smt else, and I am expected to contribute money (of which i have none rn) to my family. HELP!
How do you truly let down your guard around people you trust?
How do I heal from a friendship heartbreak that also ended up destroying a whole community I was a part of? I made a friend through us both liking the same band but they ended up being a shit friend and I can’t listen to the band anymore so I’ve ended up losing being a part of their fandom. My life feels empty
LUUUUUUUUCE, i think i might be in love with a boy, but he has no idea i exist. my friend told me about him months ago as a potential fantasy, but i think i've grown attached and idk what to do with my feelings. i have no social media so i can't even make a move if i wanted to. crazy enough, we've been orbiting each other for the last few months and i even saw him IRL at a coffee shop, but i lost all my cognitive and motor functioning to talk to him. welp ???? is the only way out through... or can i do something about this?
omg I FEEL YOU AND THIS IS SUCH A HARD/ INSANE FEELING
it's awful because i truly can see him again at any random moment, so every time i go outside i spend a stupid amount of time making sure i look the cutest. olivia rodrigo was so right when she said love is embarrassing. i need my suffering to END.
Someone in our household makes up things to yell at the rest of us about whenever [they] is stressed/worried/???/anything. Why does [they] do this?
ok i need some examples: WHAT ARE THEY YELLING?
What is a desire you haven’t yet fulfilled?
How can you make your ideas a legacy help the next generation able to do the same after you no longer feel you want to do what your do now I imagine you training up little Luce's to take over from you.
Can your tell us what it will take to get the pods back? I miss them so bad but I want it to be something that is positive for you to do that makes you happy to do. I never want them back if it makes your life worse only if it makes it better.
This might be a long one... My boyfriend and I are both from Canada but currently living in Europe where we moved to study. Now we are done and don't really have much tying us to stay here. My partner's dream is to move to the US for job reasons. While I have my hesitancies (politics, raising kids there eventually, health care, my being able to find a job, etc.) I understand why he wants to go there and think it makes sense! He has been interviewing for a job there and I think he will get it, but we likely will find out for sure on Monday (for context today is Friday). Thing is we need to move out of our sublet in a week from today! So that gives us very few days to book tickets, pack up, and say final good byes to everyone. To complicate things, I recently started an internship here (I think it, but would not stay just for this). I have not told them that I most likely am moving the country in a week. I also would be working next week, giving me even less time to do logistical tasks. Not sure really what I am asking of if this really all makes sense, but would love some advice!