plz help me seem cool on hinge
crowd sourcing courage with the 200k people that know me best
Ok, guys I thought it would be fun to take you on the journey of building my hinge profile with me, because you know me SO WELL and are my biggest support people, so it only seems right. It’s come to my attention (which you’ll know if you’ve read Make It Make Sense) that I have leaned SO far into building a business and making the best friends in the whole world (things which I wouldn’t sacrifice for anything) that I haven’t really ever done the whole dating-in-my-20s thing. AND if you’ll remember correctly, my word of the year this year is EXPLORATION, so let’s do this.
What I need from you is to vote on the pics/ prompts I’ve suggested, but also please comment your own!! I’m happy to be a lil earnest, but I still wanna be funny and weird and Luce coded. That’s the mission, should you choose to accept it 𓆩♡𓆪
PHOTO HELP
Vibe 1: Something outdoorsy because I love touching grass
Vibe 2: A slight catfish but still me tho
Vibe 3: Something that shows what I actually look like
Vibe 4: Digital photos bc they’re cool
Also, if you think I’m missing any type of pics/ vibes comment below!!!
PROMPT HELP!!!!
Ok, I’ve got some prompts in here and I need you to vote on the responses you like the best, BUT if you can think of better responses, PLEASE comment down below. I trust you because you know me.
Prompt 1: This year I really want to
Prompt 2: Two truths and a lie
I had an audience of over 200k people helping me build my Hinge profile. I’m a Gemini. I have a claw machine in my bedroom.
Prompt 3: The way to win me over is
Knowing how to spell ‘definitely’ on the first go
Prompt 4: The best way to ask me out is
Sending me a handwritten letter
Prompt 5: The one thing I’d love to know about you is
If every job paid the same, would you still pick the career you’re in???
Prompt 6: You should not go out with me if
You think hating pop music makes you deep
Prompt 7: I’m weirdly attracted to
Ok!!! HELP!!!!! LOVE YOU!!!
Luce xx
Your attractions and preferences are 100% valid. Don’t self-abandon. Go with what feels authentic.
To offer a different perspective: I personally avoid saying anything in online profiles that might come across as privileged, elitist, or ableist (like demanding perfect spelling or grammar). It is possible to kindly tell someone that you don’t think you’re compatible with them without risking putting down their dyslexia, trauma, or inability to afford, attend, or excel in school.
For any sapiosexuals: I know that attraction to intellect is a valid orientation. I don’t want to encourage erasure of that. I think there are ways to be both authentic and considerate of the audience when creating profiles.
Good luck in the dating world!
it should be 'interest in books' instead of taste I think!
Also I find the two truths and a lie so cringe as a concept, it's very pick-me, reeks of just wanting to be asked about these facts in a way that is very off-putting. AS A GENERAL CONCEPT not yours specifically.